Sometimes, with many illnesses, the safety of the family is in question. That's where hard choices need to be made. Respite Care can provide short-term relief to caregivers and often offers trained providers for those with complex needs. It is available in many different forms and for different situations: for aging adults, adoptive or foster... Continue Reading →
Reliving
TW: this will not be a positive post..and that’s okay sometimes. As I go back over my manuscript to add more important detail and information, I find myself going back to those times: Relentless weeks of a child screaming at me that this is My Fault. The waking during the night in a panic, soaked... Continue Reading →
Reflections
We just returned from a week-long vacation, traveling in our RV to Texas to witness the eclipse in totality. We used to be unable to ride in a vehicle together, much less spend days together in a small space. I realized a few hours into the trip that I had taken something as simple as... Continue Reading →
Support During Remission of PANS/PANDAS
I was recently reminded that while dealing with this disorder, you are never 'cured'. You are in remission, healthy now, or stable. This was exemplified by a recent minor flare after a 3-year streak. Support looks differently from family to family, depending on their triggers, severity, resources and more. For us, immediate support looked like... Continue Reading →
Changes That Helped During Flares pt 2
The previous post touched on some of the parenting changes that helped move our dynamic into a slightly better place while stuck in flares before PANS completely wiped out our family. If you don't know, we experienced more of a snowball effect and things slowly got worse until we were just barely at crisis levels... Continue Reading →

